I regret that I didn't keep in touch with an old boyfriend, but I didn't feel I could keep myself from want to be just friends. I was a little worried about him wanting to just stay friends too.

In my experience, once you've been lovers, it's hard to go back to being friends. One person usually wants more.

I have other regrets too. Should I or were those choices really the right choices?

How do you feel about it?

I think you made the right choice,you are right once you have been lovers it is hard to go back to just being friends. Look everyone who's human has regrets at one time or another. The thing to remember is that you did the best you could with the information that you had at the time.Once you know better you do better. That is to say that looking back we have more information about any given situation than what we had at the time.This is why people say that hindsight is 20/20. You probably made the best choice you could at the time.Hope this helps some.

Don't regret not keeping in touch with him. You are 100% right about one person usually wanting more. It's alot less painful and much easier to move on to the next best guy.

regrets solve nothing, they only cause pain. act on them to fix your guilt or forget. guilt is a horrible feeling and you should not have to feel it, especially when it is self inflicted.

learn to detatch....let go...